time to pass the torch?

C has begun to learn the fine art of grilling

eeeew!

we did the family cookout thing at MIL's house yesterday it was also a bon voyage for SIL who is moving to Las Vegas. Of course a family friend was there with her granddaughter T who is a year older than C. They have played together since they were very young, birthday parties, family gatherings etc. Not best friends or anything but they are together often enough to get along however I sensed a definite shift in things yesterday. C got water allover the jersey he was wearing & he took it off-not so strange he has always been a bit odd about that sort of happenstance if it's wet it's dirtyin his world I almost taught him how to do his own laundry when he was 3 but he couldn't reach the knobs to start the machine. Anywho yesterday wet jersey off and this left him in a plain white shirt okay fine except he spilled food on it now that doesn't bother him normally, wipe it off and go(and no I don't know why food junk on his clothes is okay but not water somethings I am better off not trying to understand). This time however he put his shirt on inside out to hide the stain from T I suppose???? When did we start caring what a girl thought? So big ewww I am so not ready for all that nonsense

so much for pajama day

my great plan for today was no plans, no plans at all just hanging out in my pajamas all day. But best laid plans an all that...
Yesterday David was suppose to shop and then grill out some chicken, with plans for the family to come over for dinner & hang out. At some point MIL picked up C so they could go visit FIL and well one thing lead to another she kept kid for the evening so David did not cook and we went out for dinner instead. Don't get me wrong it was an enjoyable evening we finally made it to Lemongrass and had wonderful Thai food as well as some sushi. On the downside this means everyone is coming over this afternoon so I have to go grocery shop, make the side dishes and clean up around the house a bit.
It also means a cancellation of pajama day.